When Autistics Grow Up.... Why Not Ask Them?

Why not ask autistic people
 what their lives are like?

I just read a great post on the FWD blog: "Today in Journalism:  Autistic Adults Need Not Comment." 

In this entry, s.e. smith writes about what is really a concern today:  there are many conversations today about autistic children growing up and how parents need help to cope.  Doesn't every parent need to cope?  But she quite appropriately points out, this is just another example of talking about someone (autistic adults and their lives) and instead focusing on what autistics have to say.

Granted, some autistic people can't communicate in the way that some people can (some use different modalities--for one great example see Amanda Baggs' video "In My Language." Excellent), does that mean their opinions, voices, etc. don't count?

Another blog, after a Google search, writes about her son's struggles from her perspective as a mom, she talks a bit more realistically, but would like to find a blog by an autistic adult talking about these things and share that instead.

In closing, I did a quick Google Search for "autistic people talk about growing up" and there were 176,000 results, but the first results don't appear to be written by an autistic person, although a link to WrongPlanet.net came up as the second result, but after clicking on this link, nothing specific appeared just their home page.

Of course every parent may have something to say about their child's life, autistic or not, but as they age, shouldn't their perspectives become more important?

Struggling to write a description..

...but I came up with this really neat Wordle:



Okay, "Wordles" are not very accessible to screen readers, but it is a neat idea to take a series of words and represent them graphically.  My purpose in creating this was to describe what the posts will be on this blog.  Feel free to share, repost, etc.

What the heck do I mean by "Scarlet Letter Mommy"?

Scarlet Letter Mommy refers to Autistic Motherhood which is actually more like motherhood of an autistic child.  Another meaning of Scarlet Letter Mommy refers to the connotations of having a child “labeled” mildly autistic.

Autism, like any other part of the human condition, is experienced in different ways by different people.  Some people are “high-functioning” and are able to function (or "pass") in the neurotypical world.  Many of these people are saying that this is the way they are and neurodiversity must be more accepted and understood.  Others are more profoundly autistic.

While some of what I experience with my son is just plain old motherhood (I am the mother of an only child), so I have to stop and think more about some of things that my son does or says—is it autism or is it a normal little boy revolting (“I want a new mom!”)?  How do I know the difference?

Well, I’m getting better and better at recognizing it.

Diving right in

For as long as I can remember, I've been a collector of all things autistic/autism. I helped my dear friend Nan Songer organize the huge amounts of information she had (several large size 3-ring binders) and now as I am the mother of a HFA child, I keep my eyes peeled for new things, good or bad.

One of my latest endeavors was to start a Google Scholar alert for "autistic culture" and this entry arrived in my email today:

http://www.statemaster.com/encyclopedia/Aspergian

Talk about expansive! But really, how serious can I take any page that has a block ad for DirecTV (highlighting the NFL no less) right after the header "Prevalence."

And I really wanted to see what Hans Asperger looked like (this page had an outdated link I guess). So a quick Google check and I found him! See picture at right.  Knew the name but never saw the face!  Now if I can just figure out how to add captions to photos or at least alt text in this blog, things will get better.